Relationships Part 2: My message to my ideal partner ... Expressing my authentic self!
Part 2:
My Answer: “I do not have all the answers to your questions,
and I like to consider various options:
The important thing to me, of having the right partner would
be:
Firstly Be a man… a
gentleman…
Secondly the attributes:
Respect, Real Honesty,
Old school values, Compromise,
Compassionate, Patient; Someone strong so I feel protected, strong in mind and
spirit, having intelligent
conversations (as when we are older
this is important), and acceptance of each other fully (Flaws and all).
Keeping promises and never making you feel insecure. Because when I
trust you, I give fully and unconditionally.
Tough love: The ability to be tough with me when I go off the
rails, an open mind so we can share many new experiences, and lots of laughter…
I will cry, I will get angry, I will scream and laugh but only because I want
to experience each emotion fully.
We will argue and fight, because we are passionate
about life! but we will share every moment fully, because I know we are on a
journey together forming a strong unbreakable bond.
Our ability to motivate and
challenge each other, support one another's
goals and dreams as individuals, as well as having dreams to
achieve together. Having absolutely NO ulterior motives; which can hamper one another’s growth, in anyway, rather have a painful but gentle conversation,
explained over a candle lit dinner.
Never belittling, and always encouraging!
Surprises!
Having and making moments
that take our breath away. The smallest moments I believe are
memorable. That moment just before the kiss… the nervousness of when you hold
my hand in public… the excited look in your eyes when you see me… the laughing
moments…
And always looking at
me like I am the person I am and want to be… and the person you admire!”
I want to know you, your deepest darkest secrets, why you
are my beautiful delightful disaster. I want to
unravel the mystery of you!
Then I want to challenge you to
be the man you have always dreamed of, the man I see! We have to challenge
each other!
Knowing that
with my support, you will conquer every goal you have ever had.
I don’t need you to
shout it to the world, I want the world to see the
value I add to your life simply by looking at you.
When we are out
together, laughing and having fun, I want onlookers to know that was a
partnership made in heaven!
Incredible!
Unbeatable!
Simply
Amazing!
In our private
moments, being vulnerable and
sharing those parts we are both too sacred to show the world. Knowing that our
most intimate moments are special, and we can
simply be! Be safe, secure and loved!
I
need you to whisper to me daily I am your world…
I
don’t care what the outside opinions are because I know when I am enclosed in
everything you have to offer,
I am protected, supported, and ready conquer the universe!!!
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